Problems are a part of life. Just as
quickly as we stand back up on our feet, another problem arises that tries to
trip us up and take us down. There are little problems that pop up each day and
are easily squashed. But then there are the big problems like a cloud that sits
overhead. We don’t see an end in sight and we don’t know when or if we will see
the light of day again.
Feeling stuck in a problem with
no way out is no way to live. We want to equip you with 4 problem-solving
tips.
1.
Get to the root.
What exactly is the problem?
Sometimes it goes much deeper than what we see on the surface. For example,
we may convince ourselves the problem is our job. But then we quit and find
just as much dissatisfaction in our next job. This can be because the root of
the problem was actually our lack of honoring ourselves outside of our jobs,
whether through creative outlets or satisfying hobbies. Dig deeper into the
issue to peel back the layers and tend to the roots so that the solution works!
2.
Try out a variety of perspectives.
When you only see your situation
from one perspective, you miss out on the best possible solutions. Put yourself
in the shoes of the other people in the situation. And then look at the problem
as a complete outsider. What do you think and feel while standing in each set
of shoes: yours, others, and outsiders. What solutions do you see? In the
bigger scheme of things, how important is this problem? You may find that as an
outsider, the problem is petty and not worth your time. Or you may see that
it’s a bigger deal than you ever realized and needs your immediate time and
attention!
3.
Write down every possible solution.
After a 360 degree perspective, what
solutions did you see? Write down each one and go through them to mark down all
the options you have tried and put the ones remaining in order of what to try
next. Don’t hold back on solutions. Write them all down, because they may be
the beginning thoughts for the perfect solution! Grab a few options and
put them together for an even greater result! This exercise will also help you
see that there IS a way out. You are not hopeless.
4.
Determine what resources and support you need.
We live in a world with an endless
amount of resources at our fingertips. It’s easy to get lost in the rabbit hole
as we search for help. So before you go looking, figure out exactly what it is
you need. Use the knowledge and expertise of the people around you to help you
determine what resources are available! Maybe your problem is in your marriage.
Ask your pastor for book suggestion. Or seek the advice of a friend who has a
marriage you admire. What works for them?
It’s hard to know which direction to
take when dealing with a problem. But follow the steps outlined above to ensure
you are at least moving in the right direction! The more you respond to your
problems in this way, the more you will set yourself up for easier and quicker
solutions.
Tell
us in the comments, what problem do you need to solve?
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